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December 1, 2016

Effective goal setting is an important foundation for living a good and satisfying life

Ask yourself what you feel passionate about and want to spend time doing. What do you want to do with your life while you are here? A vision is a great dream that you can stretch towards. It helps keep you motivated and helps you to remember why you chose your goals.
November 25, 2016

Domestic Abuse – New Awareness and Action is Necessary

Change is possible for those who want to change and the brain is the key. To avoid emotional explosions, one needs to understand and learn to deal with emotions so they don’t keep building up. Since the brain is flexible, old neural pathways can be transformed. Transformation is the only way to get lasting change.
October 21, 2016

Humans – the hidden, ticking bomb

She continued to tell her story, in a whisper. Tears flowed freely over her cheeks and her chin, and she wiped them away with her sleeve. “I just wanted to help and be kind, but it was always misunderstood and wrong. I asked God for help too, but he never came.” She paused... “Instead I was sent away to get help, but I did not receive help. It was rather abuse of a child, I know that.
October 10, 2016

It’s taking an insanely long time…

One reason I get so passionate about this subject is that we haven’t made much progress in the past 30 years in our development and knowledge about human mental health. Now I know that many will react to this - but before you react, look at the results we see in society. More and more young people flounder and are given pills or sent to a psychologist. Some people tell me that they “unplugged” by using alcohol after a stressful day, ending up with alcohol abuse. If we had just learned to ask ourselves what we were “unplugging” from, and in addition had learned techniques that allow us to do something about the cause. We can do that today. We can learn to cope with stress and pressure in daily life.
September 24, 2016

Humans are described as intelligent creatures

Peace cannot be decided by politicians, peace must be created. Even the most populated country on Earth is made up of individuals, and this is where it gets complex. Humans – you and I – must be the ones who are willing to make changes and create peace.
September 10, 2016

“The brain does exactly what it is told to do”

I was very afraid of elevators because I learned at an early age that the elevator could get stuck and then it would be hard to breathe. There was a lot of subconscious fear stored with that attitude. The result was that when I walked past an elevator my heart beat a little faster and I got a painful clump in my chest. My brain followed that neural pathway, even when I had said to myself that I was not going to use the elevator.
September 2, 2016

An alternative to sleeping pills

Once more a new drug is produced that treats symptoms instead of causes. We need to learn to cope with stress and worries, or we will end up with a society where everyone must take pills for something or other.
August 19, 2016

Forgiveness – the key to a good life

I had stored a lot of hate and hurt feelings during my life that I realized were eating me up from the inside. However, forgiving someone who had caused me pain was a very high threshold for me to climb over, very high indeed. To be honest, I became provoked when anyone talked about the subject.
June 25, 2016

When a guilty conscience tears away at us

We set high standards for ourselves, and that contributes to having a guilty conscience. For example, we have expectations about eating right, exercising enough, being there for children, family and friends as well as taking care of our work and home. All that we want to or ought to do that we don’t have time or perhaps enough energy to do. We feel pulled in several directions, creating a high level of stress in life.
June 20, 2016

What goes on inside our heads?

When I grew up, no one taught me how to cope with all that life may consist of - from joys to sorrow, large and small challenges or problems at home or elsewhere. The past week has made it even clearer to me how important that is, and I’m not talking about treating symptoms or superficially.
May 27, 2016

A vision for life

When someone rolls their eyes and pats you on the head, you need to stand strong. This behavior is probably the most disguised bullying of another person, the type that results in people losing their self-esteem and belief that they can. That is why one of my goals is to strengthen each and every individual.
April 22, 2016

Let every single day be an active day for raising awareness about our own values

My message is that we should raise our awareness about how we influence the world around us every single day, and not just on one particular day. Our thoughts and behavior come from attitudes buried in our subconscious, and this is where you and I need to do something about it. Attitude changes don’t happen by themselves; you and I must be willing to raise our awareness about values that lead to good choices and actions.
April 15, 2016

A story from my mental archives

This is part of a story from my mental archives. It’s very interesting to see what incidents turn up that have been hidden away.

April 8, 2016

Communication – the greatest challenge in this day and age

If we are to create a new form of communication and find solutions together, we must be open-minded and willing to consider things in new ways. We must be willing to “think outside the box” of references that our brain has already stored. Since our brain does whatever we ask it to do.
March 16, 2016

“It can’t be that easy”

Deliberate and conscious development can be magical, exciting, painful and frightening – sometimes all at once. That’s why I’m glad I have constructive techniques to help me in my own life. My dream is to tell each and every person how unique they are and about the unused resource we humans have: our enormous capacity. My starting point is our brain. I understand that this is the key to greater understanding of who we are and the capacity that we have.